Social Commentary
Get Spanky?
Mon 25 Aug 2008
17 °C
We thought we would share a little story... something we witnessed Saturday on the subway. We were seated beside a young father and his 18-month old daughter. They were adorable together. Little daughter was curious, as little kids are, and was walking around the train as far as her father's grip on her shirt would allow. When little daughter was touching other people's things, father said, "Don't touch. You need to respect other people's things." Fantastic! When little daughter hit the man sitting beside her on the arm, father firmly said, "No! You don't hit people." Those words alone, wonderful. However, what accompanied that comment was father hitting little daughter's hand multiple times.
Why can't we as a human race see our own contradictions when they are staring us right in the face? We almost burst out laughing - the hypocracy was so evident! Yet it was saddening. It revealed a bigger picture about our world and the violence in it.
There are 24 countries in the world where spanking is illegal. Finland is one of those countries and has been since 1983 (only preceded by Sweden in 1979). In Finland, you don't spank your children. In Finland, in contrast to Canada/USA, teachers in preschools and nurseries are EXPECTED to hold and hug and care for the children (I know because I was a teacher in Finland for almost 5 years). And yet in Finland, the rate of violence is low and the military doctrine is based on the concept of total defence. That is, Finns don't go and fight wars outside of their country. They only believe in defending their own country from within it. We don't agree with any forms of war, but this is one step closer to no violence.
“An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.”
~Mahatma Gandhi
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